I did my big chop at the end
of December and kept it under wraps from my husband for a month. I told him I was going to cut the relaxed ends from my hair before I did it; his response was... "no you're not; I don't like women with natural hair. After I
gave him the eye and asked him what he meant by women:-/ He couldn't come up with one real reason why he didn't like natural hair "on women". I came up with a reason. Since we have been together I've always shoulder length or longer hair. I believe it was a ploy to bully me into not cutting my hair. Let me tell you how I kept my BC from him for a whole month. I work in an environment where I can where a baseball cap, and
at night I started wearing a satin bonnet. I guess he noticed one night
that he hadn't seen my hair in a while and he took the bonnet of my head and dropped his jaw. Since that night I have been out of the natural hair
closet; in my personal life; I have yet to come out at work. My husband has now accepted my BC, but he’s
not loving it yet; he loves long hair. It
will be at least a year or two before my hair is long again; so until then; I’ll
try to wear cute hair styles and clothes, a little make up, and nice earrings;
he likes when I’m "going out on a date cute" :-)
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